Should We Believe in Kundli Matching for Marriage?
Marriage at its best in Indian culture is not just a union of two individuals but of two families, energies, and karmic destinies. The most debatable issue of the day is – Ought we to believe in Kundli matching for marriage? Some find it outdated, some use it entirely. Let’s look at it from the astrological angle.
What is Kundli Matching?
Kundli matching, or kundli Milan or Ashtakoot Milan, is an ancient Vedic astrology technique where the birth charts of the would-be bride and groom are matched to confirm compatibility. The process is computed from eight kootas, adding up to 36 points. A match of over 18 points is traditionally acceptable for marriage.
The key objective is to measure long-run equilibrium in terms of:
3. Psychological compatibility
4. Children (offspring)
5. Sex compatibility in Kundali
6. Emotional attachment
But the question here is: Is Kundli matching really believable?
Kundli matching importance in today’s times
1. Psychological Compatibility
The relationships of today have emotional disconnections. Guna Milan focuses on emotional and mental compatibility between the couple so that they can realize how compatible their mind and way of life are.
2. Dosha (Flaw) Avoidance
One of the biggest benefits of Kundli matching is to identify defects like Mangal Dosha, Nadi Dosha, or Bhakoot Dosha that can make life in the marital home suffer if not identified.
According to Dr. Vinay Bajrangi,
“Most people ignore Kundli matching and then face issues that could have been prevented and avoided with proper astrological guidance.”
3. Progeny and Family Growth
One of the most crucial aspects that Kundli matching looks into is the issue of childbearing. Incompatibility of Nadi or Tara can reflect infertility or delayed conception of further children.
4. Financial and Career Stability
Most astrological pairings indicate how the collective destiny of the couple would influence money growth. Discordant Bhakoot can lead to money instability or constant problems.
1. Why People are Skeptical
2. Some feel that love marriages do not need Kundli matching.
3. With modernization, it is considered a superstitious ritual by most.
4. At times, despite 30+ Gunas compatibility, marriages also fail.
But here’s the truth:
Matching Gunas is just one part of it. The real power lies in examining the entire birth chart of both parties.
Again, Dr. Vinay Bajrangi affirming,
“Kundli matching would be fruitful only if it is done beyond Gun Milan – i.e., including planetary positions, Mahadashas, and mutual aspect analysis.”
The Deeper Method of horoscope Matching An ideal Kundli matching for marriage involves:
1. Ashtakoota Matching (36 Gunas)
2. Mangal Dosha report
3. Dasha compatibility system
4. 7th House and 7th lord in both horoscopes
5. Shukra (Venus) and Guru (Jupiter) position
6. Transit influence on wedding timing
Then do you hold belief in Kundli matching? Yes — but with a logical, modern approach and with the help of an expert astrologer such as Dr. Vinay Bajrangi.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Q1: Is Kundli matching required for love marriage?
Answer: Even in love marriages, Kundli matching helps decide long-term compatibility and identify any hidden doshas which can affect the relationship in the future.
Q2: If 18 Gunas are matched, is that sufficient for marriage?
Answer: Over 18 is the general cut-off, but the occurrence of Mangal Dosha, Nadi Dosha, or other graha doshas requires a closer scrutiny.
Q3: Can two individuals with low Guna scores marry each other?
Answer: Yes, if there are yogas in both the charts that neutralize the low score. Astrologers like Dr. Vinay Bajrangi look at the whole chart, not just numbers.
Q4: Is online Kundli matching accurate?
Answer: Online Kundli matching software may be a good beginning, but it is only a detailed consultation with a senior astrologer that gives you the correct and customized view.
Q5: What if both of them have Mangal Dosha?
Answer: If both the partners are afflicted with Mangal Dosha, they can nullify the effects of each other. But a closer examination of the position and house of Mars is required.
Conclusion
At a time when logic and emotions have taken over, Kundli matching continues to be a lovely mix of science and spirituality. It has nothing to do with blindly conforming to numbers but realizing the energies and karmic patterns that two individuals bring into a relationship. Performed with care, Horoscope matching is a good sign of a happy and successful married life. In order to get proper and personalized advice, it is strongly advised that you meet a reputed astrologer like Dr. Vinay Bajrangi.
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